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It will be good, great even.
But first, I have to panic, scream, insult and cry out all my tears, (like a true drama queen bitch?).

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  • It’s all handled differently by local culture and local law, per each country. In my country, any doc can, and often do interrupt the process, faking results or simply refusing treatment as it is against personal religious believes of the doc. Personally, went thru over dozen mental health doctors in my city, and none were friendly to help (ok, one were, for 10000€ over 3 years), currently have to travel for few hours each week to get a little help, that is still interrupted by lot stuff. If we could get some friendly rules by law (and laws are made by state, don’t they?), I could maybe have some argue vs doc, currently I’m in sht.

    Sorry for personal vent… guess local experiences do affect our pov. Please be assured, Imo transfolks should get best, that includes lots of autonomy.


  • Oh totally agree… education to 10-12yo kids about possibilities. Full ahead! My life would be way better too, yet, I’ve learned things while around 30yo ;_;

    I DO NOT call to ban HRT for young persons. Every transfolk, adult or kid should be able to be self!

    I just worry if some could hurt self on a whim, while not being a trans - adult person can get responsibility on own action, but underages have some of that responsibility taken from them. I’m talking about some friendly verification, if a child saying of being trans, truly are? Are they - drop the HRT very next day!

    At the same time, no, I don’t have an idea how that verification would look, hope some friendly specialists are smarter than me, and they may make decisions. Also, if they, smarter than me, make a law to let everyone easily get hrt, I wont oppose that.


  • Afaik not only. Delaying is one thing, Giving other hormones is second thing.
    Delaying things, totally can see to let everyone delay freely.
    To replace, personally wish I could trust my kids after long talks. But can also see, most kids have nuffin than 67 memes and minecraft in their head, lot’s may want as true phase or because some idol told em to.

    Even adult eggs have the rule, that none should push egg crack, but the egg must do this on its own. We do not say to person in questioning that they are this or that side. These shells on younglings gonna be extra vulnerable to media or influance… tiktok challenges “tell parents You wanna change gender and record from hidden cam”. What now?


  • I’m trans, bit old even.

    HRT for underage being some limited? Can talk, sometimes kids may do not know what they want, some could verify with extra care and without ideology, if these kids are really into some other gender. Then if they are - let them be. Even before puberty (or maybe extra before). Or maybe just give them a bit of self care too? Uneasy topic, can understand some argues (whatever my personal, liberated view is on that). (with extra note, I’m totally not against hrt for trans younglings, but could talk about verification if that underage really know what they want, and that who would verify that, hope not a priest?).

    HRT for adults, who may wants to decide about OWN body? Like, I can legally get a tattoo, even on face. Can get whole new hairstyle or go bald, I can buy breast augmentation, get piercing. Can buy alcohol and cigarettes that will damage my inner body for a moment of peace in my mind (with a risk of overdosing and way more damage). Can devote own life to science or some god. It is legal to do so much stuff to self… but altering gender, even makeup or some clothes… impossible nope never.

    Uhm sorry, triggered and went out of a meme, again

    [edit] - by hrt for youngling, I mean full scale HRT, not just blockers to delay. Delaying, giving time is imho always good.
    Giving hrt to all transfolks is also big yes.
    I only worry, if younglings who say they are transfolks, trully are, or they do that on a whim, phase or such. That should NOT be excuse to ban treatment, but I’m ok if young ones get some friendly verification. In oppose to adults, that should do not need any verification.



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    As whole electronic world suffer from RAM shortage and few super greedy fucks… aye, all the prices are stupidly high.

    Buying market premade is often worst idea to - they put one nice part and 5 others are lowest tier possible, but then, drop ads that one part is super awesome (and not even always is)… making it whole barely handle unmoded minecraft (quite old game, with much simple graphics).

    Buying all parts as You see them on stores now - its freaky expensive, yes… ImHo… don’t, unless You don’t care for wallet.

    How to - again, we are in shitty times, but how it used to work before dramas - hunt the promos. You make a list of compatible parts (mostly CPU vs motherboard - they have to be same type, having same “socket type”). And seek promos daily on all stores around, if You see something fairly cheap - get it, then hunt other parts… It may take even few months to complete. Making it work together is no big deal, but for first time, could recommend getting a friend who did that before (there’s plenty).

    Sadge, the promo hunt tactic, even if should be waaaay cheaper… is risky now - after few months, we may end with few great parts bought for silly monies… but the last one or two parts may get fucky high prices by the time… market is fucky crazy now, the way is risky, still should be cheapest for strong pc.

    Note for hunt, sometimes, it may be even worthy getting whole cheap pc from market mentioned earlier - and throw bad parts out, keeping only 1-2 good parts for friendly price, it happens too, many tech markets don’t care the current prices, if some old stuff block warehouse, they may push them out for whatever, to just make warehouse space for newer things.

    Yeah, market is sick… some called me mad, but few solid pro premades are on the market too… Personally, I’m standing with SteamMachine - went for it at moment of preorders, at moment, price of it was called high… today (half year later), price is still same, and everything else is stupidly higher. The power of SteamMachine is just a mid tier, nothing fancy. Some hunted could still be cheaper and-or stronger, at cost of daily checking lots of places for promos, if some have time for that, maybe maybe…

    Note for SteamMachine being fairly cheap now, but being only mid tier… The rush for photorealistic graphics is gone. New mid tier pc from 2005-2015 would last 4-5 years before newest games wouldn’t run on this mid pc of back then. Currently, it all slowed down a lot - current mid tier pc, like SM… I expect it to handle new games just fine in 6-8 years in mid settings, so still playable.

    Woah, wall of text. Welcome to the herd of PCMR.