This is @Dave@lemmy.nz and @Dave@piefed.nz but PieFed told me not to use my admin account for general browsing so here I am following instructions.

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  • On the one hand I agree with you as for the curated experience, on the other hand echo chambers are unhealthy.

    My suggestion is to block bad faith participants. There are lots of conversations I have with people who disagree with me and probably can’t be convinced otherwise, but they are still enjoyable conversations if they are had in good faith.

    To be honest I don’t block that many users, I am able to spot bad faith participants and not reply to them, and if they reply to me I don’t reply back. But if people are having trouble with the argumentative minority of Lemmy, I think blocking them is important. There’s no point being here if you’re not enjoying it.


  • I think to survive on Lemmy (all social media tbh) you need two things.

    One is the ability to disengage when it’s no longer fulfilling. I see reports from people saying they are being harassed by someone in a thread and I can’t help but wonder why they didn’t stop replying to the bad faith comment about 17 replies earlier.

    The second is that you should block what you don’t want to see. Block communities where you know you’ll never be interested. Block users who reply in bad faith. Block instances where you see bad faith commenters a lot.

    Do these two things, and comment a lot, and I think you end up with a much better experience.



  • Have you got experience self hosting other things?

    I really think that it’s good to start with something small and personal (say, a wiki or Jellyfin) where you can build some skills around hosting, reverse proxies, security practices, backups, etc.

    Hosting a service as part of a wider interconnected network of sites isn’t as difficult as it sounds but there is definitely potential to screw it up beyond repair.





  • Mr Prosser: But, Mr Dent, the plans have been available in the local planning office for the last nine months.

    Arthur: Oh yes, well as soon as I heard I went straight round to see them, yesterday afternoon. You hadn’t exactly gone out of your way to call attention to them had you? I mean like actually telling anybody or anything.

    Mr Prosser: But the plans were on display…

    Arthur: On display? I eventually had to go down to the cellar to find them.

    Mr Prosser: That’s the display department.

    Arthur: With a torch.

    Mr Prosser: The lights had probably gone out.

    Arthur: So had the stairs.

    Mr Prosser: But look, you found the notice, didn’t you?

    Arthur: Yes yes I did. It was on display at the bottom of a locked filing cabinet stuck in a disused lavatory with a sign on the door saying beware of the leopard.