• CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
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      16 days ago

      There’s zero things that are “dick moves” that justify the use of potentially deadly force. She could have fallen and hit her head and gotten a traumatic brain injury and blows to the chest can cause your heart to stop. The very early could have been a snuff video

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        16 days ago
        1. She grabbed his drink. Assault. Unjustified.

        2. He dumped the drink on her. Questionable. She had instigated the physical altercation, but this could be considered an unjustified escalation.

        3. She lunged at him. Escalation: Assault by battery.

        4. He shoved her away while she was attacking him; she fell over backward. Even if the beer-dumping was unjustified, he was now justified in using physical force to stop her physical attack.

        5. She tried to stand back up; he kicked her back to the ground. Questionable. He was certainly justified in initially shoving her away, which caused her to fall to the ground; if he reasonably believed she was getting back up to continue her battery, he was justified in putting her back on the ground.

        6. He retreated, and grabbed his things. De-escalation.

        7. She picked up a beer bottle and threatened him with it. Escalation: Assault with a deadly weapon. (This also demonstrates the reasonableness of his belief that she would continue her battery in #5.)

        8. He shoved her away while she was threatening him. Completely justified by her latest assault.

        9. He retreated while she was on the ground. De-escalation.

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          16 days ago

          Grabbing a drink isn’t assault. Nor is it battery. It is, at most, petty theft.

          So no, he actually started the physical altercation, which means that all of your assertions are false.

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            15 days ago

            I invite you to go through each and every action and reaction yourself. Characterize them how you wish, and we can reasonably discuss those where we disagree.

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                15 days ago

                Are you talking about here, where you discussed “low impact” and “high impact” escalations? I think that was a reasonable, fair analysis of escalation.

                The use of force against another person without their consent is generally unlawful unless justified. A use of force is justified where a person reasonably perceives a threat of unjustified force, and uses only such force a reasonable person would believe necessary to stop that threat.

                You addressed “escalations” on most of these acts during the altercation. However, your analysis is incomplete. You did not explicitly state whether each of these forceful acts were justified or unjustified, and you did not provide your rationale for determining justification.

                1. I don’t want to put words into your mouth, but I think we can agree that grabbing the glass from him was an unjustified use of force.

                2. I think we can also agree that his throwing the drink on her was also an unjustified use of force. (Even though there was a previous use of force by her, the throwing of the drink could not be considered an attempt to “stop the threat”; the throwing of the drink was unjustified.)

                3. Her lunge across the table. Was this justified, or unjustified? Why?